Deaconess Chrissie Gillet, PsyD

Word of Hope Director

Office: 888.217.8679


Frequently seen in boots and jeans, Chrissie reveals her Texan upbringing and love for country-living. She particularly enjoys time with her family in the garden or at the lake. Down-to-earth and modest, she prefers genuine conversation on a first name basis over haughty titles related to her education or vocation. Chrissie is married to her best friend, Steph Gillet, who is a pastor at St. Paul Lutheran Church in Tomahawk, WI. They enjoy working side by side in the ministry as a husband-wife and pastor-deaconess team. Together they have seven children, but only their youngest still resides at home, along with Phoebe, their Labradoodle in therapy dog training.

Chrissie earned a doctorate in clinical psychology from Spalding University, and completed her psychology residency as an officer in the United States Air Force. She served four years active duty and another four as Inactive Reserve. God blessed her with a range of counseling experiences in settings such as: a domestic violence shelter, the suicide crisis hotline, military mental health clinics, and a Christian counseling agency. Transitioning from an emphasis on psychology to theology, Chrissie attended the Distance Deaconess Program at Concordia Theological Seminary, Fort Wayne. She graduated in October 2018 and was commissioned as a deaconess with Lutherans for Life.

In her position as the Word of Hope Director, Chrissie answers the hotline calls and emails. Understanding both the secular worldview and the Christ-centered perspective, she listens without personal judgment while also responding in Christian truth and love. Motivated by compassion, she often goes above and beyond to connect people with local services and natural supports. Beyond her typical hotline responsibilities, Chrissie writes articles, publicly speaks, and leads Bible studies on a range of topics related to life issues.

Valuing a Christ-centered lifestyle, Chrissie serves her neighbor through acts of mercy. Each year, she opens her heart and home to exchange students from around the world. Amongst her church family, she regularly visits folks who are hospitalized or shut-in, and enjoys the fellowship while creating crafts with members in her home. Within the rural and small-town community, she gifts numerous people with produce from her garden, home-cooked dishes or crocheted newborn baby blankets. Truly, to know Chrissie, is to know her as your loving sister in Christ.  

Deaconess Pamela Buhler

Word of Hope Assistant

Deaconess Pamela Buhler joined the Lutherans For Life team as our Word of Hope Assistant on February 1, 2021. Pamela completed her Master of Arts in Deaconess Studies from Concordia Theological Seminary, Fort Wayne, Indiana, in 2018. Prior to her seminary studies she earned her BA in Electrical Engineering from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst in 1997.

In addition to her role with Lutherans For Life, Pamela currently serves as Deaconess of Messiah Lutheran Church in Keller, Texas, where she cares for members of her congregation by connecting the mercy of Christ to the Church and her people. Pamela’s diaconal care ranges as she brings the love of Christ to people through college outreach, elderly & homebound care, hospital visits, hospice assistance, crisis pregnancy and post abortion healing.

Deaconess Buhler and her husband Buckley Buhler, a Software Engineer at Lockheed Martin, currently reside in Fort Worth, Texas. They have six living children: Michael, Melinda, Christina, Amanda (spouse: David), Joseph, and James.